Tuesday, August 5, 2014

What I’ve Learned about Self-Publishing

I should subtitle this post, “Part 1 of 23 billionty” because that’s how going indie feels—in all the best ways.

It's been almost a month since I made the decision to self-publish THE EXPATRIATES and I have to say, it’s been the most freeing experience of my writing life. Being able to make every decision has been empowering. But having to make every decision has been quite scary, as well.

For as long as I have been writing, publishing has been this enigmatic dream behind a great wooden door with a huge iron lock. The inner-workings were mysterious and fabulous, and all I wanted was for that door to be opened for me.

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Well, suddenly, I find myself with the key. 

To be honest, it feels like I've stolen it. But it's totally legit and yet, having the key to that door isn’t enough. There’s an emotional piece that needs to fit and a great many mind-leaps have to happen, too. The biggest one for me, so far? Getting over the habit of needing to be told what to do.

What I’ve learned? It is much more complicated and yet easier than I imagined.

I shared this way back two weeks ago on Facebook, about two weeks into my self-publishing journey:

You ever feel like the Universe has been sitting back just waiting for you to make a decision, and once it's made, it starts throwing everything in your path to validate your choice and buffet you up on floaty fabulous wings? That's exactly how I am feeling about publishing my book this fall. *tosses glittery confetti*

What I’ve learned: There is this huge wealth of information and support out there for you to use, learn, and benefit from. There’s no need to re-invent the wheel every time a new author decides to go indie. The community is there and the energy is collaborative, not competitive. It’s amazing, really.

I’ve spent the last several years polishing up my novels and query letters, my 1, 3, and 5 page synopses, my elevator pitches, my blurbs, and my one-liners. I’ve educated myself on what works and what doesn’t in the writerly ways. I’ve learned the ropes as I learned the language of publishing. I’ve been following the advice of others—professionals who control access to the magical land of publishing that exists behind that door.

And then I decided to go indie and suddenly I’m in charge. That’s a huge shift. But one that every indie author has to face when they start out. Hiring an editor? *gulp* Finding a cover designer? Who, me? Planning a release schedule and marketing plan? Wha?  All this while writing the next book? O_o

I continue to marvel at the resources that have been shared with me via friends and others in the field who have gone before me.  For my part, I’d like to share a resource that prompted my Facebook post above. It helped me feel empowered and less overwhelmed by all there was in store for me. This book was totally written for me. 

Susan Kaye Quinn’s Indie Author Survival Guide is a must-read. If you’re new to indie publishing, been at it a while, wondering if you’re crazy, or if you’ve been curious about the methods of one author whose success seems to be growing exponentially... you want to read this book.

For my part, I have no idea how this will all turn out. I have no idea what to expect from the publishing world that seems to be changing on a weekly basis. I only know one thing for certain: 

What I’ve learned: It’s an exciting time to be an author. 


My first book, THE EXPATRIATES comes out this October! *eeeep!* You can stay in the loop by signing up for my spam-free newsletter, finding me on facebook, or following me on twitter.  

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Build Your Audience with a Facebook LIKE Box

As I start down this road of indie publishing, I am already benefiting tremendously due to the incredible openness and sharing of the indie pub community. In that spirit, I plan to share the things I know and the things I learn along the way. Today I'd like to share a powerful little platform-building tool.

You've heard it a million times: If you're an author today, you need to have your social media platform online and hopefully growing every day. Most of the tools you need to get your platform online are simple enough to use, but how do you get them all hooked together and streamlined? 

One simple way is to create your own Facebook like box for your website or blog-in minutes. The Facebook Developer has a nifty tool for you to create different types of like-and sharing links, like this one for my page:

(Psst... while I've got you here... give me a like.)

I don't have any case studies on this, but I can tell you that a link box like the one above helped my nonprofit audience grow by connecting our website to our Facebook page. This allowed people who came to our website to see *and like* our page without having to click over to Facebook, search for the page, find it, and then (hopefully) like it. (That's a lot of clicks and time you're asking for!)

A link like this one is active in that it only functions when the person viewing it 1) has a Facebook account and 2) is logged in. But these days, the odds are in your favor, making this a worthwhile choice, IMHO.


Do you have an author page on facebook?
Leave a link in the comments and we can like each other. It will be a like-fest!

How To Make Your Own Facebook Page LIKE Box
  1. Go to the Facebook Dev page HERE
  2. Choose the type of linking you want to add to your site from the list on the left
  3. Enter your data in the form
  4. Click "get Code"
  5. Choose your code type from the tabs at the top of the code box. I chose iframe, which felt like the simplest option for what I was trying to achieve. It doesn't require secondary code in my template and can be put anywhere.
  6. Copy and paste the code (Might be wise to save it to notepad or other safe place so you don't lose it.)
  7. Paste the code into your site. You will have to flip over to the HTML code side in most cases in order to make embedded code function properly. 
That's it! I hope you are able to use this little tutorial to get your own facebook like box active and build your audience.

Don't you just *love* the internet?

Monday, July 7, 2014

Taking the Leap into Indie Publishing

There. I said it out loud. I've made the decision to publish my first book, THE EXPATRIATES, independently and see what happens.

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I have long been a supporter of indie publishing, and have many friends whose books have passed through my kindle and my hands thanks to indie publishing. I've decided that it's time to add my book to the great TBR pile out there. So you can read it, and hopefully enjoy yourself in the process.

Publishing is changing so quickly anymore, and most of these changes are to the benefit of the ones creating the books. This is so super exciting! But there is still a lot of work to do and OMG a ton of stuff to learn. But I'm up to the task and I'm eager to make this happen, so I hope to see it through to a beautiful book at the end.

I hope you'll follow along with me as I make my publishing dreams come true!

THE EXPATRIATES – Coming Soon 2014!  (yay!)

    Seventeen-year-old Jim Wales can communicate with animals, but his animal mind-tap ability isn’t why he lives with a traveling carnival. Instead, his family's been hiding him there since he was little, when they learned someone was hunting all the Scholars. And Jim has no idea.

    When a falcon arrives with a message from Jim’s not-dead father from their not-destroyed homeland, Jim’s whereabouts are discovered and Jim watches as his brother is murdered in his place.

    On the run with a strange glass map and a single coin, Jim finds himself racing to reclaim the father he thought he’d lost, plotting to avenge his brother, and finally discovering the truth about who he is.  But he soon learns that going home isn’t the same as being safe. And that trust is everything.

Thanks for reading! I can't wait to share a cover and a release date! But you guys... this is totally happening and I am *stoked*!

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Book Review: Sticks and Stones by Shawn McGuire

Sticks and Stones (The Wish Makers, #1)Sticks and Stones by Shawn McGuire

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I was lucky enough to get an advance copy of Sticks and Stones and I cannot wait for the rest of this series!

You'd think Mandy would be elated on the eve of her sixteenth birthday, but she's miserable. Her friends are pulling away and she feels like she'll never catch the eye of her forever-crush, Ethan. Alone and feeling totally hopeless for something to change, she makes a wish...

... and it is granted.

Desiree, a "wish mistress" with a bus-load of her own baggage, brings Mandy's childhood imaginary friend to life. Lexi's sixteen, too. And for a while it seems all is right in Mandy's world.

But it turns out that Mandy's wish isn't that simple. It's part of a personal journey that she must see to the end. Getting to the end means Mandy won't need Lexi anymore. Trouble is, Lexi doesn't want to be sent back to oblivion. She likes it here and she's going to stop at nothing to make sure she gets to stay.

An exciting and tense story with great characters (and a gorgeous cover!).

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Cover Reveal: Sticks and Stones by Shawn McGuire

I'm so totally thrilled to share this with you!  My friend Shawn's debut novel is coming out in a few weeks and the beautiful book cover is hot off the presses.

Follow Shawn on Facebook... she's releasing excerpts from the story as she gets more likes on her new author page. And while you're at it, add STICKS AND STONES to your TBR pile at Goodreads.

But before you go... behold:

Gorgeous! And, I happen to know the book is great, too. I had the honor of being an early reader and my review is coming soon.

About the book:

Everyone has a dark side. Mandy’s just moved in with her.

The last time sixteen-year-old Mandy Matteo broke a rule, her sister died. Since that day she has done only what is expected of her, but life as a goody-goody has made Mandy so boring her friends have all but abandoned her. And she’s given up on ever getting Ethan, the boy she’s liked forever, to notice her. Desperate, Mandy makes a wish to simply be happy.

Her wish is granted and happiness arrives in the form of Lexi, her childhood imaginary friend come to life. Magical wishes have conditions though: Once started, the wish cannot be altered or stopped. And once Mandy is truly content with her life again, Lexi must go back to where she came from. But Lexi loves being alive and she’ll do whatever it takes to stay that way.


Monday, May 5, 2014

Writing Process Blog Tour

Hey there! Thanks for stopping by for this week's stop on the Writing Process Blog Tour. This is a neat blog hop where authors answer four questions about themselves, their process, and their current work. And maybe share a little something that will light a spark of insight along the way.

Sue Duff
I'd like to thank my friend Sue Duff for the invitation to take part in this tour.  Click on over to her website to read a short story, some flash fiction, and get to know her a little better. Sue and I met at the Rocky Mountain Fiction Writers (RMFW) Colorado Gold Conference in Denver last year. She's a delightful person and a terrific writer. Her Urban Fantasy novel FADE TO BLACK will be coming out in the Fall 2014.

This blog tour is comprised of four questions:

What am I working on?
I've just finished my second novel, a YA fantasy murder mystery entitled COVENTRY TOWN, which is out with beta readers at the moment. I'll be working on it again in the coming weeks when my readers get it back to me. In the meantime, I am working on outlines for two different projects to see which one comes alive before I decide which I will tackle next. One is a contemporary YA and the other is historical. I'm actually quite excited about the historical story, but that would be totally new ground for me so it is rather daunting from today's perspective.

How does my work differ from others of its genre?
My YA writing tends to drift over to the dark side, it seems. The feedback I get from readers is that my stories are fast-paced and visual but not always letting my characters get what they want. Or, if they do get what they want, it comes in a way they didn't actually visualize. I like to weave creepy elements into my stories. Whether is be setting, or character, I find creepy is something you can count on where I'm concerned!

Why do I write what I do?
I totally write whatever excites me. I have many ideas that I jot down and add to my idea binder that get pulled out when I am in a transition phase between projects like I am now. I then will sit with and percolate on the ideas, and sometimes try to outline a couple until one grabs hold. Sometimes something will come to me out of the blue and I'll follow that thread to see where it leads. Ultimately, I write the things that I want to read and hope others will find them as exciting as I do.

How does my writing process work?
If you asked me a year ago, I would have something totally different to say. But I learned over the course of this year that I am a plotting girl. Outlines are my friend. That said, I do allow for free flow when it comes to my writing, because outlines can be adjusted, too! I also find that the more strict I get with rules, the harder it is for me to stay in the zone.

On a typical writing day, I will sit down with my tea after the kids are off to school and break open my outline, open Scrivener (how do I love thee, Scrivener...), and read from the beginning of whatever chapter I'm working on until I get to the point where today's work must start. I've had success by looking at the project as a whole, breaking it down into smaller chunks based on my deadlines, and breaking it down again until I have weekly and daily goals. This is especially easy with an outline and I thank Karen Wiesner for making my writing life feel so orderly and manageable after years of chaos.

So, that's the skinny on me and my writing. You're invited to visit two fabulous authors who are also on the tour TODAY: Shawn McGuire and Kristi Helvig.

NEXT WEEK, the tour continues!  On MAY 12, please visit my super fantastic writer friends as they share their writing, their process, and a little bit about themselves.

Dean K Miller - Dean is a freelance writer and member of Northern Colorado Writers. His work has appeared in Chicken Soup for the Soul: Parenthood, TROUT magazine, Torrid Literature Journal and other literary magazines. His essays won three separate contests at www.midlifecollage.com. His first book, And Then I Smiled: Reflections on a Life Not Yet Complete was released in February 2014.

For 26 years, Miller has kept the skies safe as an air traffic controller for the FAA and received the National Air Traffic Controllers Association (NATCA) Northwest Mountain Region 2010 Archie League Safety Award. In his spare time, he enjoys fly fishing and he is an avid supporter and volunteer for the veteran’s support group Project Healing Waters Fly Fishing. He lives in Colorado with his wife, Laura and their two dogs, Bear and Snickers. He's got a BOGO book sale going on until tomorrow!

Anna Tan - Armed with a laptop, Anna Tan loves to set words to the screen, having eschewed the difficulties of working with pen (or pencil) and paper (they're never around when needed). Her short stories have been included in two anthologies, "Letters to my Ten Year Old Self" and "Campaigner Challenges 2011". "Stories from A Place To Call Home", published in September 2012, is her debut flash fiction collection. She also edited Love in Penang, an anthology of short stories, which was published in November 2013.

Libretto credits include "Star of Persia" produced by FGA in 2003 and "A Place to Call Home" produced by PCC in 2012. She has dabbled in drama since 1995 and loves to pretend that she knows how to dance. She starred as Esther in the 2003 production "Star of Persia" and was also in the ensembles of "Drunk Before Dawn" (SIB, 2004) and YES Broadway Gala (Georgetown Festival, 2012).

C.G. Harris- Chuck Harrelson has always had a passion for fiction, and his books put the fate of the world into the hands of humanity. He has written in many genres, but he has an affinity for writing adventurous young adult novels that navigate through everything from science fiction and fantasy, to magic that exists right here in the real world.

His previous manuscripts won The Ballot Press competition in 2013 and his newest YA Sci-Fi, THE RAX, won the Top of the Mountain Book Award at The Northern Colorado Writers Conference. Chuck pounds away at the keys every chance he gets, and he is working on his fifth book, due to be completed this September, that will have his characters once again fighting for the fate of our world. Chuck can be reached at chuck3131_at_hotmail_dot_com

Lisa Vooght - Lisa started out as a Marine Biology major, pursued a business career, then finally settled down in the field of special education.

Writing was a sporadic hobby until the Washington Post actually published (and paid for) a bit of poetry.  Since then she's had a few poems, short stories and articles published. You can find her throwing ideas around on her blog Flash Fiction at http://lisavooght.blogspot.com/.

Thanks for stopping by, and I hope you enjoyed learning a little about me and my work. I also hope you'll visit the other authors on this tour, (2 today, and 4 next week) links above.

Happy Monday!

Thursday, May 1, 2014

BOGO gifts for Mother's Day

Need a special Mother's Day gift for your Mom, Wife, or Grandmother?

Mother’s Day is on May 11 here in the USA and Hot Chocolate Press has a special buy one get one free offer.*

Buy AND THEN I SMILED ($11.95) by Dean K Miller and get PLANES, TRAINS and CHUCK & EDDIE ($10.95 retail) by Kerrie L. Flanagan for FREE.**

Both will be personalized, signed and sent to you (or directly to your gift recipient) before Mother's Day.

Offer ends Tuesday (May 6, 2014).

I had the pleasure of meeting both Dean and Kerrie at the NCW Writer's conference in Ft. Collins CO back in March. Kerrie, the conference director, and Dean are lovely and generous people who made this writer feel like an old friend.  I hope you're able to take advantage of this terrific offer and make a special gift of these books to the mothers in your life.

Here's a taste of Dean's writing, an essay about Mothers.

A Mother's Patience
by Dean K Miller
A mother’s patience is one of her most under-appreciated traits. It starts at the moment of her son’s conception, as she is the first to know that life has been created inside her. Though her love for the unborn child is strong and the bond of motherhood already formed, she must wait nine months to hold this unique miracle.

She watches as he grows, withstanding sleepless nights of nightmares, his stuffy noses, tantrums and the scrapes and bruises. Someday her son will become aware of the love, the nurturing, and the guiding. And, finally, of the letting go. But she knows it is on his schedule, not hers.

As he spreads his wings and explores the world, the mother continues to wait. Whether it’s late-night phone calls, listening to girlfriend troubles, the lack of money or the feeling of not knowing where to go in life, she is there when called upon. Patiently she watches him, knowing in her heart that the choices are his, and sometimes wishing he would choose differently.

But wisdom, learned perhaps from her own mother, has taught her that the journey is not hers to take. Patiently, she watches from afar, understanding that life will teach her son the lesson he needs at the exact moment he needs it.

When he calls to express his frustration, she doesn’t try to undo the lesson, but instead helps her son capture the learning.

Then, the moment she has waited for arrives. The son has discovered the true source of his inner self and joyfully returns to her doorstep. With patience she listens to the moments of his life that brought him happiness. Subtly, she encourages his story to unfold, laughing silently at his follies and smiling brightly at his courage to face his fears. He tells her things he has told no one and knows his words are protected and safe.

Though it has taken decades, the bond of mother and son has grown to include a friendship which knows no equal.

Now they walk through life together, knowing their love between them transcends all boundaries. It is everlasting and it makes them smile. 
Thank you, Mom, for allowing me to grow into myself, for patiently waiting all of these years for it to happen, and for accepting me each day along my journey. You are the magic behind the story of my life.

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Wednesday, April 30, 2014

26 Words Every Writer Needs: Z #atozchallenge

Hooray! We did it! Scheduling sometimes required a double-dip a few times, but we made it all the way to Z, and that's worth popping a cork and sitting back in the glow.

Writing that resonates, those stories that are truly memorable for the feelings they evoke, usually share something in common. As far as I'm concerned, they are:

1. of or pertaining to life

I think as writers, something we are all trying to do is connect with a reader. Whether you want to scare the bajeezus out of them, take them on a fantastic journey, teach a lesson, or share a truth... your writing will likely be able to resonate most memorably because it is zoetic--because it struck a chord with your reader.

When I think back to the books that landed on my favorites list, I see stories of revenge, epic fantasies about good versus evil, justice, hilarious comedies, and lots and lots of thrills. These stories are part of my personal reader-heart because they moved me in a way that I could relate to. Because they had something inside them that I had inside me at that time... some universal something that rang true. To me, they are zoetic.

Bonus Z words for writers: zeal, zest, zzzzz

Do you agree that zoetic writing is the stuff that stays with us?

Thank you for joining me for this month of posts for the 2014 A-to-Z Challenge!

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

26 Words Every Writer Needs: Y #atozchallenge

Almost home, people. As we get to the seldom-used letters at the end of the alphabet, I find myself unwilling to pick the low-hanging dictionary fruit. And despite the little list I've gathered of unique Y words, I can't help but stick with my first choice. A plain and small, and hopeful word:

1. up until the present or a specified or implied time; by now or then.

I just got back from a trip to Massachusetts where I was able to attend the Newburyport Literary Festival and meet many authors. Over the course of the various talks and interviews, I was struck how often these writers shared how long it took.

How long it took to write their book, how long it took to publish, how long it took to achieve whatever it was they were talking about. And this left me feeling rather hopeful.

I don't know about you, but for me, there seems to be this constant sense of urgency related to getting my books out there and published and read. There is a sense that I started late, or that I have missed some window of opportunity on this journey related to my own timing of it all. Crazypants? I don't know.

But a part of me feels differently about that today. The impatience will always be there, I think. I've had this dream for so long. But the overwhelming pressure I've put on myself seems to have drifted away for now after hearing so many times that it is a universal thing, the waiting. And it seems that while timing is everything, you can't manufacture perfect timing with intention. It's a fabulous change.

And so... I am feeling rather good about that tiny word. I'll get there. I just haven't gotten there yet.

Bonus Y words for writers: yes, yummy (for the snacks!)

Do you struggle with this sense of urgency around your writing goals?

26 Words Every Writer Needs: X #atozchallenge

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. 

This one took some digging, but I finally found an X word that feels right for this year's theme of words that writers need.  In this case, it is something that writers need to be. And that is:

1. something – such as a person, place or software application -- that is friendly to strangers.

This one, like many other words I have focused on this month, seem to come back to the theme I have built over this month of writers being good citizens of the world. Whether you intend to take your work public with the goal of commercial success or prefer to keep your work to share in your small circle, I believe it can only serve you to be xenodochial.

I believe this applies equally well to writers in critique groups, anyone writing book reviews, or those who spend time on social media. This isn't to say that you should bend and do whatever it takes to agree with everyone and never ruffle feathers... that isn't realistic. But I do believe that it is possible to be true to yourself, and be authentic in the world, and still be kind.

I've been traveling and so I am behind on responding to comments and visiting your blogs. I'll be there soon. :)


Bonus words for writers: yeah... I'm stumped on X

Saturday, April 26, 2014

26 Words Every Writer Needs: W #atozchallenge

Oh friends, we're almost to the end! And today's all about W and one of the best words there is:

1. noun: a feeling of surprise mingled with admiration, caused by something beautiful, unexpected, unfamiliar, or inexplicable
2. verb: desire or be curious to know something.
3. verb: feel admiration and amazement; marvel

Ah.... wonder. There are so many funny memes out there which talk about writers and how we are not like other people. While many of them ring true, I find that most of the truisms that apply to writers can be applied equally to most anyone who spends their time in a creative pursuit.

Writing requires a mindset of openness and receptiveness, and to get there you need to wonder. Go on wonder-walks to reconnect with nature and settle down, or untie story knots with your steps. Wonder-wading is also rather special... what is it about water and its ability to kick-start the creative process? Both of these things are especially useful while you're wonder-waiting for responses to submissions.

Many people think that the state of wonder if something that only a child can achieve. But I say that it just might be that creative people have found a way to maintain that wonder as they grew up. Maybe that's what makes "us" different?

Another WONDER that every writer needs:

Seriously... omg the FEELS! 

Are you tapping into your wonder? I find my pinterest a great place to harness images that help me wonder...

Friday, April 25, 2014

26 Words Every Writer Needs: V #atozchallenge

It's V day! And that means it's time to talk about something near and dear to my heart:

1. to engage in passive relaxation

source: google

This is kind of like my Q post from the other day, except this is resting for the sake of resting. Not ulterior motive here. Sometimes napping just won't cut it. You know when you're feeling like your brain has turned to jelly but you only have a little while until the next thing has to happen and taking a nap will make you into a brain-dead zombified version of yourself?  This is when you need to just veg out.

It's a very scientific term. And a truly complicated exercise. Here's the steps:

1. stop moving.

There you go. You could add 2. get prone or 3. put feet up or do what I do and 4. turn on the electric blanket. But these are unnecessary to the main objective of totally relaxing. Breathe in, breathe out... let the mind shut off a bit. This is another one that's hard for me because if I sit still I will fall asleep almost always. So, if you're like me, set your timer just in case!

Bonus V words for writers: venturesome, verify, vernacular

Do you make resting a part of your writerly duties?

Thursday, April 24, 2014

26 Words Every Writer Needs: U #atozchallenge

Not sure this is actually a word... but I'm going to go for it anyway. It's U day at the #atozchallenge and we're almost to the end!  This word is apt for all you A-to-Zers because in order to make it through you have to have a spirit of:

1. the quality of never wanting to stop

Which reminds me...

On the long journey of creating through writing, there are times when you may question why you're doing this. But the reasons for your writing, the value in your writing, the gratification you get from your writing needs to come from within. This is something I've struggled with for a long time; letting my own feelings be the measure of my work. I'm a middle child... that's never been an easy one.  ;)

But if there is one thing looking within has taught me, it's that I won't stop writing. I love writing. It eases my mind and it excites me. I love the way my mind builds ideas into stories and I love hearing from readers who were transported into the world I wrote. I'd love to make a living at it. And even if that dream never materializes, I will still write. Unceasingly.

Bonus U words for writer: uncritical, upbeat, understanding.

What drives your writing?

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

26 Words Every Writer Needs: T #atozchallenge

Lettuce roll it back a wee bit off the serious track and talk about the lighter side of writing. Whether or not you believe in such a thing as writer's block, it is known that one must continue to exercise the writerly muscles lest they wither. One way to do this is with:

1. A petty falsehood; a fib.
2. Silly pretentious speech or writing; twaddle.

A friend of mine made a gift to me of the book 642 THINGS TO WRITE ABOUT.  In this fun volume, you'll find literally 642 writing prompts with space to explore the lighter side, for the most part. There are some exercises that could tend toward the serious if you let them... but I find, so far, that the fun ones draw me in the most.

If you don't have the time to write for hours and find yourself itching to write *something*, try for something fun and silly, and your writer mind will take you there.

Bonus T words for writers: Tea!, Time, Truth

Do you do writing exercises that are not related to your work?

26 Words Every Writer Needs: S #atozchallenge

Welcome back to the A-to-Z folks, it's time for the S post... and for that I want to talk about something that resonates with me on a daily basis.

source: google

1. an act or instance of separating or the state of being separated
2. a point of parting

A couple of years ago, one of our lovely A-to-Z hosts, Damyanti, invited me to guest blog about the best writing advice I'd ever received.  In that post I shared a this one line that really changed my perspective on my work:

“You have to view your work not as something precious to you, 
but as a product to be positioned and sold.”  
- Jane Friedman

I still remember the first time I read that. There's no doubt that the pile of advice gems has definitely grown, and hopefully will continue to every day. But this one still belongs right there on the top of my list as an author who would one day like to see her work published.

You have to be able to let it go. And at the risk of bringing yet another reference to that lovely song onto the internet...  let it go.

Bonus words for writers:  synchronicity, serendipity, sleep

What say you about the idea of being able to separate from your work?